A simplified guide to help your child practice speech sounds at home.
Important Tips:
- Keep practice sessions short (5-10 minutes)
- Make it fun - use games, silly voices, and praise
- Practice in front of a mirror when possible
- If your child gets frustrated, take a break
- Celebrate small successes!
- Always check with your speech therapist before starting
What to watch for:
- Lips should come together
- Air puffs out when lips separate
- No voice/buzzing in the throat
Easy Practice Activities:
- The Popping Game Close your lips and puff up your cheeks with air
Pop the air out in short bursts: "p-p-p-p"
Hold a tissue in front of your mouth - try to make it move!
- Feather Fun Hold a feather near your mouth
Try to blow it away by making the "p" sound
- Motor Boat Pretend to be a motor boat
Make "p-p-p-p" sounds going fast and slow
Try These Tricks:
- Touch your lips lightly together, then blow air out quickly
- Practice "kissing" sounds without the voice
- Say "ah" and then close your lips to make "pah"
What to watch for:
- Lips come together (like "p")
- BUT - your voice box should be "on" (buzzing)
- Less air puffs out than "p"
Easy Practice Activities:
- The Buzzing Bee Put your hand on your throat
Feel the buzzing when you say "b"
Compare to "p" - no buzzing!
- Bubble Sounds Pretend you're blowing bubbles in water
Make "buh-buh-buh" sounds
Feel your throat vibrate
Try These Tricks:
- Say "mmmm" and then open your lips to make "bah"
- Start with lips together, then pop them open while humming
- Think of it as the "noisy brother" of "p"
What to watch for:
- Tongue tip touches the bumpy spot behind upper front teeth
- Tongue drops down quickly with a little puff of air
- No voice/buzzing
Easy Practice Activities:
- Tap-Tap-Tap Use your tongue to "tap" the bumpy spot behind your teeth
Make quick "t-t-t-t" sounds
Pretend your tongue is a woodpecker
- Find the Bump Lick a lollipop or your finger
Touch the bumpy spot behind your front teeth
That's where your tongue goes for "t"!
Try These Tricks:
- Put a small piece of peanut butter on the bumpy ridge - lick it off with your tongue tip
- Hold a tissue in front of your mouth and make it move with the "t" sound
- Pretend to be a clock: "tick-tock"
What to watch for:
- Tongue tip touches the same bumpy spot as "t"
- BUT - voice box is "on" (buzzing)
- Less air than "t"
Easy Practice Activities:
- The Drum Sound Put your hand on your throat
Feel it buzz when you say "d"
Pretend to beat a drum: "d-d-d-d"
- The Motor Turn your "motor" on (voice)
Touch tongue tip to bumpy spot
Drop it down quickly
Try These Tricks:
- Say "n-n-n" and keep your tongue in the same spot but stop your nose from working
- Compare "t" and "d" - "d" has the motor running!
- Say "la-la-la" and make it shorter and quicker
What to watch for:
- Back of tongue touches the back of the roof of your mouth
- Quick pop of air
- No voice/buzzing
Easy Practice Activities:
- The Coughing Sound Make a gentle cough sound
That uses the same spot as "k"!
Now make it shorter: "k-k-k"
- The Crow Make a "caw-caw" sound like a crow
Feel where the back of your tongue touches
Try These Tricks:
- Lie on your back - this makes the "k" sound easier
- Gargle (carefully!) - same tongue position
- Say "ng" (as in "sing") and then pop air out
What to watch for:
- Back of tongue touches the back of the roof of mouth (like "k")
- BUT - voice box is "on" (buzzing)
- Like "k" but with the motor running
Easy Practice Activities:
- The Frog Make frog sounds: "guh-guh-guh"
Feel your throat vibrate
Ribbit!
- Glug-Glug Pretend to pour water: "glug-glug-glug"
Feel the back of your tongue working
Try These Tricks:
- Start with "ng" (as in "sing") and pop it open with voice on
- Swallow and notice where your tongue goes - that's the spot!
- Say "k" but turn on your motor
What to watch for:
- Teeth are close together (almost touching)
- Tongue tip is behind front teeth
- Air flows over the middle of the tongue
- Makes a hissing sound
Easy Practice Activities:
- The Snake Make a long snake sound: "ssssssss"
Teeth together (can see them in mirror)
Tongue stays behind teeth
- The Tire Pretend air is leaking from a tire
"ssssssss"
Keep it going for 5 seconds!
Try These Tricks:
- Smile slightly and put teeth together
- Rest tongue tip behind bottom teeth and arch the middle up
- Or point tongue tip up toward the bumpy ridge
- Blow air down the middle of your tongue
- Make a groove in your tongue like a slide for the air
Common Problems:
- If tongue pokes through teeth: practice keeping it inside
- If air goes out the sides: squeeze tongue sides against back teeth
- If it sounds slushy: teeth need to be closer together
What to watch for:
- Same tongue and teeth position as "s"
- BUT - voice box is "on" (buzzing)
- Like a bee sound
Easy Practice Activities:
- The Buzzing Bee Make "zzzzzzz" like a bee flying
Feel your throat vibrate
Same mouth position as "s"
- On and Off Make "s" and "z" back and forth
Notice "z" makes your throat buzz
Try These Tricks:
- Put hand on throat - feel the difference between "s" and "z"
- Start with long "s" and turn on your voice
- The bee (z) is the noisy brother of the snake (s)
What to watch for:
- Top teeth gently touch bottom lip
- Air flows over the bottom lip
- No voice/buzzing
Easy Practice Activities:
- The Angry Cat Make an angry cat sound
Bite your bottom lip gently with top teeth
Let air flow out
- Blow the Candle Pretend to blow out a candle gently
Teeth on lip
Try These Tricks:
- Look in mirror - you should see your top teeth on your lip
- Hold a feather and try to move it with "f"
- Whisper "very" and feel your lip on your teeth
What to watch for:
- Same position as "f" (teeth on lip)
- BUT - voice box is "on"
- Makes a vibrating feeling on your lip
Easy Practice Activities:
- The Vacuum Make vacuum cleaner sounds: "vvvvvv"
Feel the buzzing on your lip
- The Airplane Pretend to fly a plane: "vroom"
Keep your teeth on your lip
Try These Tricks:
- Say "f" and turn on your motor
- Feel the tickle on your lip when the voice is on
- Hold your lip with your fingers if needed at first
What to watch for:
- Tongue tip between teeth (peeking out)
- Air flows over the tongue
- No voice/buzzing
Easy Practice Activities:
- Stick Out Your Tongue Let your tongue peek between your teeth
Blow air gently over it
Should sound like air leaking
- The Teapot Pretend steam is coming out
Let tongue touch your teeth gently
Try These Tricks:
- Look in mirror - tongue should show!
- Hold tongue gently with fingers at first
- Practice words like "think" "thank" "thumb"
What to watch for:
- Same tongue position as voiceless "th"
- BUT - voice box is "on"
- Should feel buzzing on your tongue
Easy Practice Activities:
- The Motor "TH" Put tongue between teeth
Turn on your voice: "thththth"
Feel it buzz on your tongue
Try These Tricks:
- Say the quiet "th" (thumb) and turn on your voice
- Hold your throat - feel it buzz
- Practice words like "this" "that" "the"
What to watch for:
- Lips are slightly rounded (like blowing a kiss)
- Teeth close together
- Tongue pulled back a bit from "s" position
- Wider, quieter sound than "s"
Easy Practice Activities:
- Be Quiet! Make the "shhhhh" sound to be quiet
Round your lips a little
Tongue is back in your mouth
- The Train Make steam train sounds
"Ch-ch-ch-shhhhh"
Try These Tricks:
- Pucker lips slightly (not too much!)
- Pull tongue back from where it goes for "s"
- Should sound softer and "fatter" than "s"
What to watch for:
- Mouth is open and relaxed
- Air flows out like a breath
- Very easy sound!
Easy Practice Activities:
- Panting Puppy Pant like a dog: "huh-huh-huh"
Keep mouth open
Just breathing out with voice
- Laugh Make a "ha-ha-ha" laugh
Feel the air
Try These Tricks:
- Breathe on a mirror to fog it up
- Pretend to be tired: "huhhhh"
- Make your hand warm with your breath
What to watch for:
- Lips together gently
- Air comes out your nose
- Voice box is "on" (humming)
Easy Practice Activities:
- Yummy Food Say "mmmmm" like food tastes good
Keep lips together
Hum through your nose
- Nose Check Hold a tissue under your nose
Say "mmmmm" - tissue should move!
Try These Tricks:
- Hum with mouth closed
- Pinch your nose - sound stops! (That proves air is coming out)
- Think of it as humming with lips together
What to watch for:
- Tongue tip on bumpy spot behind front teeth
- Air comes out nose
- Voice box is "on"
Easy Practice Activities:
- The "No-No" Sound Shake your head "no" and say "n-n-n-n"
Keep tongue tip up
- Nose Test Hold tissue under nose while saying "n"
Should move!
Pinch your nose - sound stops!
Try These Tricks:
- Say "d" but let air come out your nose instead
- Hum with tongue tip up
- Think of a siren: "nnn-nnn-nnn"
What to watch for:
- Back of tongue touches back of roof of mouth
- Air comes out nose
- Voice box is "on"
- This sound only comes at the END of words in English
Easy Practice Activities:
- The Gong Make a gong sound: "ng-ng-ng"
Feel the back of your tongue
- Singing Practice Say "sing-song" slowly
Feel where your tongue goes for "ng"
Try These Tricks:
- Start to say "g" but keep it in your nose
- Touch under your chin - feel the muscle
- Practice: "sing, ring, thing, king"
What to watch for:
- Lips round and pucker (kiss shape)
- Back of tongue is slightly raised
- Quickly move to next sound
- Voice box is "on"
Easy Practice Activities:
- Baby Crying Make "wah-wah-wah" like a baby
Start with rounded lips
- The Wind Make wind sounds: "woooo"
Lips are rounded at the start
Try These Tricks:
- Pucker up like a kiss, then relax
- Say "oo" (as in "boo") and quickly change to other vowels
- Practice "we, way, why, wow"
What to watch for:
- Tongue is high in mouth (like saying "ee")
- Quickly glides to the next sound
- Voice box is "on"
Easy Practice Activities:
- The Yes Sound Say "yes-yes-yes" quickly
Feel tongue up high at the start
- Yo-Yo Say "yo-yo" like playing with a yo-yo
Tongue starts high and moves down
Try These Tricks:
- Start saying "ee" and quickly change to other sounds
- Smile and raise middle of tongue
- Practice "you, yay, yell, yoga"
What to watch for:
- Tongue tip touches bumpy ridge behind top teeth
- Sides of tongue are down (air flows around the sides)
- Voice box is "on"
Easy Practice Activities:
- La-La-La Singing Sing "la-la-la"
Feel tongue tip touch up top
Sides stay down
- Lollipop Licks Pretend to lick a lollipop
Touch the bumpy spot with tongue tip
Try These Tricks:
- Open wide and lift just the tongue tip
- Say "d" and hold the tongue there longer
- Let air flow around the sides of your tongue
This is often the HARDEST sound! Be patient and get help from a speech therapist if needed.
What to watch for:
- There are MANY ways to make "r" - all correct!
- Lips may be slightly rounded
- Tongue is pulled back in the mouth
- Voice box is "on"
- Should sound deeper than other sounds
Easy Practice Activities:
- The Growl Make a growling sound like a dog or tiger
"Grrrrr"
Feel your tongue pull back
- The Motor Make a motor starting sound: "rrrrrr"
Back of tongue is bunched up
Try These Tricks:
Method 1 - Tongue Tip Up:
- Curl tongue tip back toward the roof of your mouth
- Don't touch the roof!
- Round lips slightly
- Turn on voice
Method 2 - Tongue Tip Down:
- Keep tongue tip behind bottom teeth
- Bunch up the middle/back of tongue
- Make it rounded like a ball in your mouth
- Turn on voice
Method 3 - From Other Sounds:
- Say a long "er" sound (as in "her")
- Now say it at the start of words: "er-ed" → "red"
When "R" is at the end (like "car"):
- Start with "uh" sound
- Pull tongue back slowly while saying it
- Should start sounding like "er"
Practice Words:
- At beginning: "row, ray, run, read"
- At end: "car, bear, hair, more"
- In middle: "very, carrot, cherry"
Making Practice Fun:
- Play "I Spy" with target sounds
- Read books that emphasize the sound
- Make silly sentences with the sound
- Use hand gestures or movements
- Give stickers or small rewards
- Practice in the car, at bath time, during walks
Using a Mirror:
- Let your child watch your mouth
- Have them watch themselves
- Make funny faces together
- Point out tongue and lip positions
When to Get Help:
- If you're not sure how to make the sound yourself
- If your child is frustrated or upset
- If these techniques don't work after trying for a few weeks
- If your child's speech therapist recommends something different
Important Reminders:
- Every child learns at their own pace
- Some sounds develop later than others (like "r")
- Practice makes progress, not perfection!
- Keep it positive and playful
- Celebrate effort, not just correct sounds
(When kids typically learn sounds)
By Age 3: p, b, m, h, n, w By Age 4: d, t, k, g, ng, f, y By Age 5: s, z, l, sh, ch By Age 6: th (both kinds), v By Age 7-8: r (can be even later!)
Remember: These are averages. Many children learn sounds earlier or later and are still developing normally.
Problem: Child loses interest quickly
- Shorter practice sessions (3-5 minutes)
- More games and movement
- Let them choose activities
- Practice during favorite activities
Problem: Child gets frustrated
- Take a break
- Go back to easier sounds or steps
- Focus on fun, not perfection
- Try again tomorrow
Problem: Sound is correct in practice but not in regular talking
- This is NORMAL!
- Keep practicing
- Gently remind during conversation
- It takes time to make it automatic
Problem: You're not sure if the sound is correct
- Record your child and listen back
- Compare to your own production
- Ask your speech therapist
- Focus on consistent effort
Consider getting professional help if:
- Your child is frustrated by communication difficulties
- Family members can't understand your child
- Your child is teased about their speech
- Speech errors persist past the typical age
- Your child avoids talking because of speech issues
- You notice regression (sounds they could make are now errors)
- Your child has other developmental concerns
Speech development is a journey, not a race. Your love, patience, and encouragement are the most important ingredients for success. These practice activities are meant to support - not replace - professional speech therapy.
Keep it fun, keep it positive, and celebrate every small step forward!
This guide is adapted from evidence-based clinical speech therapy techniques by Andrzej Lewandowski MHS MA CCC-SLP/L PEL, a bilingual speech therapist in the Chicago area. It is simplified for home use. Always consult with a qualified speech-language pathologist for professional assessment and treatment recommendations.